Couples Counseling – What Kind of Relationship Do You Want?

I am a guy who has been married for over 20 years. I have had relationships that were successful and ones that weren’t. My wife and I have been through some hard times, but we are still together. We have a very good marriage. We have learned how to communicate and compromise with each other. We have worked out our differences and problems.

It was only a few years ago when we realized that we needed to do something about our relationship. Our marriage was getting stale. There was no spark anymore. The sex in our marriage was gone. We decided to go to counseling.

We went to couples counseling. The counselor gave us some advice. He said that if we didn’t want to get divorced, then we should work on our marriage. We took his advice.

In the beginning of our counseling sessions, we talked about why we wanted to be in a relationship. We both agreed that we wanted to find someone special to share our lives with. We wanted to find someone to love. We wanted someone to love us back. We wanted to find someone that we could spend the rest of our lives with.

After talking about why we wanted to be together, we talked about what kind of relationship we wanted. We talked about how we wanted our relationship to be. We wanted it to be loving, caring, and supportive. We wanted it to be honest and open. We wanted it to be fun and exciting. We wanted it to be a place where we could share our feelings and dreams.

When we talked about what kind of a relationship we wanted, we also talked about what kind of a person we wanted. We both agreed that we were looking for someone who was trustworthy, loyal, faithful, and honest. We were looking for someone who would make us laugh. We were looking for someone that we could trust with our secrets.

We also talked about what kind of person we wanted. We wanted someone who was kind, compassionate, gentle, understanding, and loving. We wanted someone who was patient and kind. We wanted someone who was considerate and thoughtful.

After we talked about what kind of person that we wanted, we also talked a little bit about what kind of person that the other person wanted. We talked about what kind of person they wanted to find in their partner. We talked about what kind person they wanted to be. We talked about what kind relationship they wanted to have.

We also talked a little bit about how much time we wanted to spend with each other. We talked about how much time we wanted our relationship to last. We talked about how much money we wanted to spend on each other. We talked about the amount of children we wanted to have. We talked about the number of bedrooms that we wanted.

After we talked a little bit about what we wanted in our relationship, we also talked about what we expected from our partner. We talked about how we would treat them. We talked about how we expected them to treat us. We talked about how we felt about the future of our relationship.

We talked about what kind of person would be best for us. We talked about how important it was for us to find the right person. We talked about how important our children would be to us. We talked about how much we wanted to give to each other. We talked about what kind kind of relationship we wanted.

After talking about what kind of person we were looking for, we talked about what kind person we were looking for. We talked about how important honesty was to us. We talked about what kind honesty was. We talked about what kind integrity was. We talked about what sort of integrity was important to us.

We talked about how important communication was to us. We talked a little bit about what kinds of communication we wanted. We talked about what kinds of communication we needed to have. We talked about how important trust was to us. We talked how important trust was to our relationship.

We also talked what kind of person we wanted to be. We talked what kind of person we would be. We talked about what type of person we would like our relationship to be. We talked about how much fun we wanted our relationship to be.