Do You Want To Be With Me?

If you’re in the dating game, there’s no doubt that you’ve probably been asked this question. “Do you want to be with me?” The answer is yes. But what do you say? It’s not an easy question to answer because it’s loaded with so many different meanings. Here are some tips to help you get started.

1. Say “Yes.”

You can’t say “yes” if you don’t mean it. So, take a few minutes and think about what you really want. If you really want to be with someone, then you’ll have to say “yes.” If you don’t want to be with someone, you won’t have to say “yes.” You should also be honest with yourself and your partner. If you really want to spend time with someone, tell them so. If you don’t, then just let them know that you don’t want to be exclusive with them.

2. Be specific.

It’s not enough to say “yes” to everything. Make sure that you are specific about what you want from your partner. You might say, “I want you to call me when you are going to be late.” This is much more specific than saying, “I want you to always call me when you are going out.” Be specific about what you want and how you want it.

3. Don’t be afraid to say “no.”

There’s nothing wrong with saying “no.” In fact, it’s good to be able to say “no” at times. Just make sure that you are being truthful. If you say “yes” but really don’t want to be with them, then you should say “no.” If you say “no” but really do want to be with them, you should say “yes.”

4. Be clear about what you want.

Be very clear about what you want. Don’t say things like, “I want you to be my best friend,” or “I want you to give me space.” What do you want? Is it a casual relationship? Do you want to be exclusive? If you don’t want to have sex until marriage, then be very clear about that. There is no point in having sex if you don’t want to.

5. Take responsibility.

If you are going to be with someone, then it’s up to you to make sure that you are getting what you want. If you are not getting what you want, then it’s up to both of you to figure out what you need to do to get what you want. If you want to be exclusive, then you need to make sure that you are giving your partner what they want. If you want to have casual sex, then you need to make that clear to your partner.

6. Have fun!

Remember, this is supposed to be fun. If you aren’t having fun, then something isn’t right. So, make sure that you are having fun. If you aren’t, then you should work on changing it.